Human beings worldwide desperately want to put a face to the
brutalized Indian girl who was raped and killed. That is why the Facebook photo (real or not) went
viral....because we all want to mourn a real person we can see and try to
know....Any female photo can be the girl, because all women are
equally vulnerable, in India and every country. Male lust is not the cause,
abhorrent international cultural male barbarism is. It not only brutalizes
women, it brutalizes children, the elderly, gays and lesbians, and those of other races,
castes, religions, political views, and economic levels. Male barbarism is not
animal instinct, it is human insanity.
from NY Times,
1/7/13, by Sohaila Abdulali
I Was Wounded; My Honor Wasn’t
THIRTY-TWO
years ago, when I was 17 and living in Bombay, I was gang raped and nearly
killed. Three years later, outraged at the silence and misconceptions around
rape, I wrote a fiery essay under my own name describing my experience for an Indian women’s magazine.
It created a stir in the women’s movement — and in my family — and then it
quietly disappeared.
Then, last week, I looked at my e-mail and there it was.
As part of the outpouring of public rage after a young woman’s rape and death in Delhi, somebody posted the article
online and it went viral. Since then, I have received a deluge of messages from
people expressing their support.
It’s not
exactly pleasant to be a symbol of rape. I’m not an expert, nor do I represent
all victims of rape. All I can offer is that — unlike the young woman who died
in December two weeks after being brutally gang raped, and so many others — my
story didn’t end, and I can continue to tell it.